Wednesday, March 21, 2012

February

I know I haven't been keeping very good care of this blog, and this post is quite behind schedule- but better late than never. The following was one of my letters to my district chairman in the United States.


February has passed incredibly fast. It seems that just last week I was lamenting the end of my vacation, writing my last letter to you, and getting ready for school. In the last month, I've started my second half of the school year, traveled across the state for Carnaval, trained for our first rugby match, and made preparations for a trip to Sao Paulo later on in March. Although February was only a day or two shorter than normal this year, it felt like it was at least 20.
First and foremost, February 1st was my first day of classes. The transition back to school was rough, I'm not going to lie. This was partly because my sleep schedule had been so badly thrown off by 2.5 months of vacation and travel that it was very, very difficult to get a good nights sleep the first week or two. I found myself exhausted in class, and then proceeding to sleep in the afternoon after lunch. Although I eventually broke this bad habit (with the help of some very strong Brazilian coffee), this exhaustion left me with a troublingly negative outlook during the first couple of weeks. All of this compounded a surprisingly cold reception by my school friends. Due to my very long stay with my first host family (more than 5 months), I found myself hanging out with the same group of people for a very long time, all friends of my first younger host brother, Vitor. Naively, as it would turn out, I assumed that after a month long trip, a house change, and not much contact, that everything would be the same with all of them. As it would turn out, my time away would act as something of a filter, separating those who I am really friends with from those that were just being nice to me on account of living with my host brother. This moment had to come, although I just regret that it came as late as it did (with under 4 months left). However, it's good to know who my friends really are, and now I can spend my time accordingly.
School, however, stopped completely for 5 days when Carnaval came around, which lasted from the 16th until the 21st. The holiday is the same as Mardi Gras, when everyone enjoys everything they can until Lent starts shortly after. My host brothers Victor and Arthur offered to take me with them to the town of Diamantina, on the other side of my state, for it's famous Carnaval. It's known around the state as the best in Minas Gerais, and one of the best in Brazil, for it's mix of organized samba shows, known as blocos, as well as the parties that take place all over the street. We left late by bus at night on the 15th, and got there in the mid-afternoon on the 16th. Although every day was more or less the same, it was usually involved getting up around 10 or 11, relaxing with the people in the house we stayed at or going to one of the nearby waterfalls, and then in the evening heading up to the center of town for the giant samba shows. The shows are sponsored by the city, so they get to be truly huge, especially in a small, colonial town like Diamantina. Being part of a party of that size, seeing thousands of people dancing with what just seemed to be pure joy and energy, was certainly one of those “wow” moments of my exchange. After 5 days of this, I had to go back to Uberlandia with a type of exhausting holiday under my belt. Luckily, I only had two days of school after I got back, and a weekend after that, so I recovered just fine.
This month I also made preparations for a trip to Sao Paulo, the largest city in Brazil as well as the entire southern hemisphere. My district here is quite strict about travel, and I am only allowed to go outside of my district with family or on the official Rotary-sponsored trips. As such, when my host mother told me back in January that she might be going to Sao Paulo, I immediately jumped on the opportunity. I have met a lot of people on my Northeast trip who are living in Sao Paulo, one of whom, Eva, I'll be staying with while I'm there. Another very interesting thing will be that I will probably get to see Mica-yes, that Mica. She's living just an hour away from Sao Paulo, and there's a very cheap bus that goes from her host city to Sao Paulo, so we're planning to meet up there. That's sure to be a great experience, seeing each other after more than 8 months, after going through so many of the same exact experiences separately. As I mentioned before, I'll be staying with my friend Eva from France, for weekend of March 23-25. I'm very excited for this trip- it's going to be great to see all my friends from the Northeast, as well as Mica, and help ease this travel bug that I've caught.
February was an eventful month, with times that were both joyful and difficult-something of a microcosm of an exchange. A sinking low of social difficulty, followed by an amazing high of travel and festivity, and in the end, a gentle conclusion to the month. However, one little monkey-wrench was thrown in the other day. After hearing a rumor from Mica that all the flights were booked in between the 18th of June and the 20th of July, I decided to ask again to Tzell Park Avenue about my return date. Seeing as we had asked them to mark the date well before February, I had just assumed that I would be going home on my chosen date: July 8th. That was the day I had told everyone that I was leaving, the day that had become linked to going home. However, after asking again, we found out that there really was no space in that slot. Seeing as July 20th would have been far too late to accomplish all the things I need to do this summer, we took the original spot that had been reserved on June 23rd. So now, I have a return date 2 weeks earlier than I had anticipated, and the realization that I only had about 3 and a half more months left, and only 3 more reports to you, hit me pretty profoundly today. It's hard to believe that my remaining time is only about the length of the start of my Northeast trip until now- a period of time which passed extremely fast. Seeing how fast February, even with school, passed, that Saturday in June, with all the great changes that it will bring, will arrive much faster than I had thought. Faster than I had thought, maybe, but I'll always be ready and willing for that next big challenge, even if it's going home.